The Cost of Compassion
“Let
us not underestimate how hard it is to be compassionate. Compassion is
hard because it requires the inner disposition to go with others to a place
where they are weak, vulnerable, lonely, and broken. But this is not our
spontaneous response to suffering. What we desire most is to do away with
suffering by fleeing from it or finding a quick cure for it.” ~ Henry Noweun
Isaiah 58:the BIG IF
Did you know that compassion literally means, ‘to
suffer with‘?
Another
definition of compassion is ‘sorrow for another who is
stricken by misfortune, accompanied by a strong desire to
alleviate the suffering.’
When we sing in church, “Open the eyes of my heart, Lord… I want
to see You.” Compassion is His answer. You want to see God? Go to the
hurting, sit with the broken, help the hungry. You WILL see & feel God all
around you. The strongest most beautiful moments with the Lord for me have been
when I am with the least of these. Praying with the broken hearted, helping an
orphan, speaking truth into the lost, or a gentle touch and a sweet whisper of
the Name of Jesus. It was then that Jesus was right before me… as my teacher.
This is it!! What we were created for.
I am utterly grateful for a God who SO longs to intimately love
& know His people that He allows for nothing besides Him to fill the void,
to fill our longing hearts. Do you get that? How crazy He is for you… for those
around you?
I assure you we never
feel God’s love more than when we empty ourselves, than when we throw aside
temporal things to show His love to the wounded, the lonely, the hurting.
The above Henry Nouwen quote is so true. As wonderful as this
journey has been, it has not been an easy one. That’s okay, because God did not
call us to a ‘soft’ life. What on earth are we here for if not to love the
lost, lean into the forgotten, and lay down our comfy lives for the broken, so
that they may ultimately know Him?
For each of us, active compassion will take us down many
different roads (not necessarily to Africa!). But all the roads lead to loving
more, giving more, and ultimately leading a broken world into the compassionate
arms of Jesus.
The cost
of compassion…
If it
means living a ‘smaller’ life…
If it
means having less time for TV & less money for manicures…
If it
means giving up vacation time to go love on some orphans half a world a way…
If it
means suffering with the forgotten & lonely…
I’ll
humbly pay it over & over again, knowing that my Jesus paid the ultimate
price.
Let these
words encourage you, for what you have done is a great blessing. Continue to
let God use you in your everyday. THANK YOU for your commitment and obedience
to change lives for the town of Hosanna.
Marybeth
Rolfe